News and Writings


  • 2025 Update

    As often happens in life, our plans do not necessarily go according to, well, plan. After all, “the best laid plans of mice and men go oft awry”. -R. Burns I have had to make the decision to devote more time and energy to my regular, vanilla job. That being said, I do not plan

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  • August Reminder

    My lovely pervs, This is a Reminder that I will be unavailable for the next month as I celebrate my Birthday and travel to visit family. I will still be filming my fun and naughty escapades, so there will be plenty of content for you to drool over when I return and resume posting and

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  • 2024 Summer Update

    I will be unavailable for sessions, online and in-person, from July 24th, 2024 until August 24th, 2024. I will also not be posting new content during this time period…but don’t worry there is still plenty of naughty fun being recorded for later uploads!

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  • Kink and BDSM are about self-exploration, about learning of our darker natures that are often in opposition to what larger society deems to be ‘normal’, or ‘safe’, or ‘appropriate’. It is my opinion, and that of many others, that those who engage in BDSM without pursuing self-growth are a potential, and inevitable, danger to themselves

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  • This is a quickie! 😉 I will be doing some very short touring in the area. On Friday, May 3rd I will be in Little Rock, AR. Monday and Tuesday, May 13th and 14th, I will be in Oklahoma City. If either of these tours interest you, get in touch with me soon! If you’re

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  • From my very early forays into kink and BDSM play in my early 20s, there have always been those that see our labels and roles as strict rules and regulations. As a species, we are obsessed with organizing and categorizing in order to create meaning out of our realities, so this is not something unique

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  • March 2024:

    Advice for a young male sub(s)… While I do not often engage in chit chat or discussions online once you get to know me, either through events or through becoming a client, I become much more generous with my time and attention. I recently had a young client reach out asking for advice, and his

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  • I love submissives! Men, women, trans, non-binary, one and all, but there often seems to be confusion between being submissive and lacking in self agency. Just because you are submissive does not mean that you have no preferences, that you have no limits, that you have no boundaries.  If you are new to kink and

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  • As someone who was born mid-year (summer for Northern-Hemisphere readers), I love how, twice a year, I can take stock and reflect on the person I am, the person I have been, and the person I am trying to become.  New Year’s Resolutions get a bit of a bad rap, though sometimes justified, as there

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